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certain way.\u00a0It may be that you are expressing a comment or that you feel that you have been treated unfairly.\u00a0Anyway, a conflict is annoying and must therefore be resolved, if possible.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Look at both sides<\/strong><br \/>\nIn the heat of the fight this may be difficult, but at a certain moment try to look at the other side.\u00a0If necessary, let it rest for a while and look at the other side if you have calmed down.\u00a0Maybe that other person does not mean it at all, or there is a kernel of truth in what the other person says.\u00a0Blaming somebody else for something because you are so stubborn to look at the situation from another side is not the solution.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. What is your contribution?\u00a0<\/strong><br \/>\nAlso be honest with yourself.\u00a0Have you perhaps said or done something that you actually know that you could not do?\u00a0Give it to yourself honestly.\u00a0Everybody says something that was not meant afterwards and it is only strong to admit this afterwards.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Add water to the wine<\/strong><br \/>\nIf you have looked\u00a0<strong>at the<\/strong>\u00a0situation from both sides, it might be easier to add water to the wine.\u00a0Perhaps you can indicate that you understand the other person&#8217;s point of view and you can indicate that you would like to come together in a way that is acceptable to both parties.\u00a0The fact that you already indicate that you understand the other person often also makes you understand the other person, so that he or she will also be prepared to water more quickly with the wine.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Wrong timing<\/strong><br \/>\nIt can also be natural that the timing was completely wrong.\u00a0Maybe you had a bad day so you made a certain comment or something went wrong.\u00a0Or maybe the other person was tired or stressed, which led to a conflict.\u00a0We are all human beings and knowing this can also resolve a conflict faster.\u00a0Of course it is no excuse to be ugly to each other, but we might just understand each other a bit more.<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. Talk to each other<\/strong><br \/>\nAre you calmed?\u00a0Then look for a moment to talk to each other.\u00a0Let each other speak out, also look at what the other person says from the other side and respond calmly and respectfully to each other.\u00a0So do not blame each other for everything, but come up with solutions and, for example, indicate how it could be prevented a next time.<\/p>\n<a class=\"synved-social-button synved-social-button-share synved-social-size-32 synved-social-resolution-single synved-social-provider-facebook nolightbox\" data-provider=\"facebook\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" title=\"Share on Facebook\" 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