Balance the Positive and the Negative
Always Figure Out What’s In Your Control
Tag: negative
Be happy and stay happy, always happy? Keep looking at your buddies
It is nice to have people around you. One person can count his or her friends on one hand, the other has so many friends that he or she often can not even mention who they are. And because every person is different, you often do a certain activity with one friend and with the other you often do something completely different. So you might have one friend that you can keep chatting with and another is a kind of sports buddy. But how do friends influence you?
From negative to positive
Of course we have our own happiness in hand, but our environment can influence this. This way friends can influence how we feel, what we suddenly like, how much success we have and whether we are healthy or not. This may sound crazy, but imagine that you have a friend who often talks negatively about things and looks at the world. It may very well be that you will also look at things in a different way and take over a little bit of this behavior from your friend. Fortunately, you also have this in your hand and you can catch yourself and adjust your behavior. You can also help your friend to be more positive in life.
Be yourself
But perhaps you also sometimes feel that you can not be completely yourself. That you, for example, you are going to flip the other person because you look up to this person. Something that is not necessary at all, because you are just fine as you are. If the other person does not accept you for who you are, it might be good to think about what this friendship is really worth.
Do not let yourself be stopped
Do you want to do something for years, but do not you do it because of the reactions from your environment? Do not stop. this is your life and you are responsible for your own happiness. So do not stop yourself and pursue your dreams. Everyone has a different opinion and it does not matter if a friend (perhaps) does not understand your idea and would not do it yourself or in a different way. You do not have to satisfy everyone and do what others say. This is not even possible. So choose yourself and go for it!