1.The spontaneity of the erections. The first change concerns the spontaneity of the erection, as you know, at 18 year, everything is wonderful, a fantasy, the perception of a breast, the idea of looking in to a Playboy magazine, all this things could bring an erection instantly.But the reaction time of the erection grows with age,from 2,3 second at 18 years,to several minutes after 50 years.
These decreases are caused mainly by physiological factors: the weakening of the cardiac muscle, the contraction of the veins and artheris. These changes don’t mean the end of the sexual life, it’s necessary to accept this situation if you don’t want to aggravate it.If, however, this thing happens, the perception that ”the sexual life has come to an end”, the emotion that comes with it, sets off the reflex process of the erections, and blocks them from happening.
Did you know that it is not necessary to have an erection when you begin to make love? The caressing and hugs are welcomed, while waiting for an erection, you can enjoy the foreplay, and become aware of the sensual pleasures ( non-genital), that are attached to it.
2.The hardness of the erections. Another important change that comes with age is the hardness of your erections: the penis will no longer know the ”as hard as iron” erections, from the first sexual experiences. Practical, this loss will happen mostly during foreplay. As the excitation grows, the penis becomes harder,generally, reaching it’s maximal firmness point during the orgasm, but not always.
In any case, the firmness of the erection it’s necessary maybe during the penetration, but what makes you a good or mediocre lover, is the way you use it. A semi-firm penis or at three-quarter of it’s maximal erection capacity, can offer the same, even more pleasure to the partner, as long as it’s used in different ways, instead of a single, mechanical way.
3.The long erection without ejaculation. This is the most ”convenient” change that you can observe as you age: the rapidity of the ejaculation fades out with age, the woman can only congratulate you for this, especially if you were ”faster” when you were younger, and the ejaculation happened before or immediately after penetration.
The rapidity of the ejaculation, that others call early ejaculation as it’s a disease, is a normal sexual characteristic of the young male. This rapidity is an natural effect of several factors: the intensity of the teen sexual pulse, caused by a high level of testosteron; the high sensitively of the genital organs; the born tendency to orgasm of the male; the erotic charisma of the young partner and the biological necessity to reproduce when the male body is in it’s best shape (18-30 years).Far from being an impotent ( sexual dysfunction), the rapid ejaculation is, from a genetic and reproductive point of view, an advantage for the survival of the human race.