Running in the world of intrinsic and extrinsic motivation. Which one are you

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What drives people to act, strive, or persist in doing something—whether it’s pursuing a career, hitting the gym, or simply learning a new language? 

The main motivation behinds these are intrinsic and extrinsic motivation. While these two types often work hand in hand, understanding the difference between them can provide deep insights into how we function, both as individuals and as part of larger organizations or societies.

Intrinsic motivation refers to engaging in an activity for its own sake—because it is inherently interesting, enjoyable, or satisfying. When you’re intrinsically motivated, you do something not for an external reward, but because the activity itself is rewarding. For instance, someone who paints because they love expressing themselves through colours is intrinsically motivated.

Extrinsic motivation, on the other hand, involves doing something to earn a reward or avoid punishment. This kind of motivation stems from external factors like money, grades, praise, or recognition. A student studying hard to get an ‘A’ rather than out of genuine interest in the subject exemplifies extrinsic motivation.

Intrinsic Motivation: The Power of Passion

Intrinsic motivation is often linked with higher levels of creativity, persistence, and satisfaction. When people are intrinsically motivated, they are more likely to stick with a task, even if it’s difficult or time-consuming, simply because they enjoy it or find it meaningful.

“I have no special talents. I am only passionately curious.” 

This curiosity is a hallmark of intrinsic motivation. People like Einstein pursued knowledge not because of external rewards, but because the process itself was gratifying.

Psychologically, intrinsic motivation satisfies our fundamental needs for autonomy, competence, and relatedness. It often leads to deeper learning and better performance, especially in tasks that require problem-solving, innovation, or sustained attention.

Extrinsic Motivation: The Role of External Drivers

Extrinsic motivation, while often seen as less “noble,” is not inherently bad. In fact, it plays a crucial role in everyday life and society. Jobs, for instance, are often chosen or maintained due to extrinsic factors like salary, job security, or social status.

“The way positive reinforcement is carried out is more important than the amount.” 

Extrinsic motivators can be very effective, particularly when a person has little intrinsic interest in a task. For instance, a child may not enjoy doing math homework, but the promise of extra playtime or praise from a parent can provide enough incentive to complete it.

Which is Better?

For long-term engagement and deep personal satisfaction, intrinsic motivation often proves superior. People driven by internal goals tend to show higher levels of well-being, creativity, and resilience. As Steve Jobs once said, “The only way to do great work is to love what you do.” That’s the essence of intrinsic motivation.

For tasks that are routine, urgent, or lack inherent interest, extrinsic motivation is often more practical. It can provide the necessary push to complete unpleasant but necessary duties, like paying taxes or studying for mandatory tests.

In professional environments, a combination of both is usually the most effective. Companies that offer competitive salaries (extrinsic) but also create a sense of purpose and growth (intrinsic) tend to have more motivated and loyal employees.

Can They Coexist?

Yes, and often they do. In fact, the best motivational strategies combine both intrinsic and extrinsic elements. A teacher, for instance, might use praise (extrinsic) to encourage a child to read, and over time, the child might develop a genuine love for books (intrinsic).

However, care must be taken. Too much emphasis on extrinsic rewards can sometimes undermine intrinsic motivation. For example, if someone begins receiving money for something they previously did for fun, like playing guitar, they might begin to enjoy it less once the reward becomes the main focus.

What’s the takeaway

Understanding the difference between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation is key to unlocking better performance, well-being, and satisfaction in life. While intrinsic motivation stems from a personal desire to explore and grow, extrinsic motivation relies on tangible rewards and social pressures. Both have their place in our lives, and knowing when and how to leverage each can help us make better decisions in education, work, relationships, and personal growth.

Ultimately, the goal should not be to eliminate extrinsic motivators but to nurture intrinsic ones—turning duties into passions and rewards into byproducts of purpose. 

As psychologist Edward Deci once said, “When money is used as an external reward for some activity, the subjects lose intrinsic interest for the activity.” So, balance is key.

In the journey of life, intrinsic motivation might be your compass, but extrinsic motivation is often the wind in your sails. Use both wisely.

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Five blessings from a BURNOUT

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Burnout seems to turn your life upside down in one go. But it is the other way around. Burn-out means that you have finally landed with both feet on the ground … It is not a curse, but a blessing. No blockage, but an opportunity.

Burnout is not a disease or weakness, but a sign of powerful self-healing capacity.

HERE THE FIVE BLESSINGS:

Blessing 1: Burn-out extends your life
Burn-out is a reminder that you have an expiration date. Anyone who is exposed to enormous stress every day will get a stomach ulcer, heart attack, or cancer … And in the end you will die from long-term stress, directly or indirectly, simply. A burnout prevents it from happening. You simply can no longer continue as before. You can therefore greatly thank your body. It does not let you down, but prevents you prematurely dying. Burn-out is a brilliant example of self-healing capacity.

Blessing 2: Burnout brings passion 
Various studies indicate that people on their deathbed mainly regret what they have not done. Of always postponing it. As if life is endless. A burnout tells you that NOW is the perfect time to not postpone anything for you. Take care of yourself. Live with attention. Follow your heart, passion and dreams. Spend more time with the people you love. Because not a single day returns. And, as the Little Orchestra once sang: started long ago …

Blessing 3: Burnout erases your old hard drive
If you get burned out, it is as if your internal hard drive has been erased. You become an empty head. Focusing on something is impossible. Even something as simple as making coffee can suddenly be a huge task. It seems like you’ve lost your mind. Don’t make the mistake of looking for it. After all, you cannot solve a problem with thought patterns that are the cause of it. Life only becomes truly worthwhile if you take this opportunity to change your mindset and thereby your actions.

Blessing 4: Burnout gives wings
Burnout is often mistakenly seen as a sign of weakness. While life is challenging you at that moment to experience your own strength. It is a transformation. You are no longer happy with the life you led. It is a too tight jacket that tears because you have grown too large. Like a cocoon bursts when a caterpillar turns into a butterfly. And this person can fly into her freedom. Burnout is
your moment to spread your wings. It is not an end, but a fresh start. A chance to finally choose what you are meant for.

Blessing 5: Burn-out makes you better at work
Burn-out makes you a better and extremely reliable employee, colleague or manager. Because it learns to focus on what’s good for you. And from there you can also be better for others. You make better choices, discover where your strengths lie and what your limits are. In addition, from now on you will signal it when others enter the burn-out danger zone. And with that know-how, you can greatly help your colleagues and employer.

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A successful CEO has these five leadership qualities

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A good CEO creates a pleasant working environment in which employees feel good. Satisfied employees are essential for the success of a company. But not everyone can just take a leadership position. How do you recognize a good and strong CEO? These five leadership qualities are indispensable.

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1. Positive setting

A positive attitude works wonders for the working atmosphere within a company. It is up to the CEO to set a good example. One negative comment can already influence the motivation of your employees. But it also works the other way around: a sincere thank you or sincere compliment – preferably as concrete as possible, because that increases its positive impact – immediately creates an enormous motivation boost. Therefore try to give the efforts of your team sufficient recognition.

2. Passion

To do something well, you have to do it with passion. A good CEO is not easily satisfied and is keen to tackle things better and better. By explaining your vision to your employees, they themselves will also be more motivated to pursue the goals of the organization. Regularly remind your team what their contribution means and how that fits in with the bigger picture. People who think they do meaningful and interesting work are on average 2.4 times happier than people who think they do ‘normal work’ –

3. Honest

Being treated fairly and with respect is one of the most important drivers for happiness at work in the Netherlands. With a transparent attitude you win the trust and the benefit factor of your employees. Always be yourself and communicate as honestly as possible about decisions regarding salary, promotions and projects. It must be clear to your employees what they must do to get a new title or pay raise. That way your employees know what they can expect from you and vice versa what you can expect from them. This way no one will be confronted with surprises.

4. Open-minded and emotionally intelligent

A broad-minded person is not only better able to establish important business relationships, but also to enter into positive relationships with employees. Open-minded CEOs empathize more with their employees. These in turn feel better understood and deal with stress more easily. People who have a good relationship with their colleagues and boss also enjoy going to work more happily. In addition, emotional intelligence makes a major contribution when it comes to leadership. Someone who is able to understand his own emotional reality and that of others may contribute more to success than pure thinking(IQ).

5. Trust

A strong CEO easily gains the confidence of his or her employees, but also blindly trusts the qualities of the team. By giving employees a sense of ’empowerment’, you improve work satisfaction. Anyone who gets the feeling that they can make their own decisions automatically feels more important. In this way employees gain confidence and develop their professional skills. And as an employer, you in turn reap the benefits.

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THE SELF REFLECTION MIRROR . . .

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Age creeps up on us all slowly stripping away our fine youth then one day we look into the bright mirror and the body does not seem to match the sparkle in the eyes no more. Then we start to look over our shoulder at our past and think wow, I wonder what would have happened or what if I had taken this path in my life?

The concept of there only being one life and a limited amount of useful time to live it is to most people like someone saying there is no Santa Claus at all. We simply want to believe in forever just like we wanted to believe in happily ever after as children frequently do.

You may think I am advocating quitting/loosing your job and going trekking somewhere in Africa but no that is not where this is going. Living is a real art itself it is not about time management or fit as much in as I can. It is about real passion, depth, vision, love and much more you can bring around.

I wish I could remember the taste/flavor of a meal long after I have eaten it, I wish I could see my partners/friends face long after they have left, I wish I could feel my friends big tight hug as he/she embraced me long after he/she had let go, I wish I could picture the one time my lovely Mother said I love you long after she is gone, I wish I was so in tune with this life, so aware, so enlightened that every moment was my greatest and I could feel it, taste it, and truly live it, yes really.

I do not want to wait until somebody tells me there are no more moments left I do not want to feel cheated because a Higher Power took my moments boom away. I want to be grateful a Higher Power gave me the moment to begin with and even provide me more sweet moments in life.

As youth slips away day by day and it will slowly, I want to be able to look in the mirror and see the happiness of a life lived with depth and passion etched in my own face. I want to be able to feel the touch of my lovers hand as it brushed away my tears not just remember it in mind. But unless I am very truly aware truly in the moment at the time allowing myself to feel, letting go of different expectations, letting go of the need to hold something back, unless that happens all I will have is a vague memory somewhere in my head. I want more I want an imprint so strong I can carry it with me and feel it when the moments are at an end, can you feel this with me….

My wish for you is that you may look in the same mirror of self reflection long before youth has vanished. I hope you will realize life doesn’t need to be pumped or filled up with things rather it needs to be soaked up for all it has to offer right now at this moment. My wish for you is that you may experience even for a second a state of total being when everything falls down away and time stands still and you can taste the air you breath in and out, feel the earth pulsate beneath your feet and hear the whisper of the Holy Angels.

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