From holiday pleasure to work pleasure

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Holidays are over. So it’s time to get back to work. It was a great time spent but everything has an end.So Holidays are over…

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The SUMMER vacation is over and work has started again. You are bothered by a colleague who says: ‘And how was your vacation? Did you have fun? Did you enjoy it? Too bad you have to start again now, don’t you? Well, get your chest wet. We have been dying here. There is a considerable workload, so you can handle it a lot. ” You think about that for a moment. It is actually special that our experience of leisure and work is seen as two extremes. We see holidays as something fun and relaxing that you can enjoy. But when it comes to work, this association is made less. No, that is rather seen as necessary, serious, boring and sometimes stressful. Can’t it be otherwise? You are more at work than on vacation.

Job satisfaction or success?
You think back to the time that you applied. You were looking for a job that would make you happy. You were happy that you got the job and you were looking forward to a pleasant time. You enjoyed the prospect of the variation and the challenges that the work would offer. This was your idea about job satisfaction. Have those expectations come true? Do you (still) enjoy your work? And I do not mean that you are satisfied with your job, but that you really enjoy it. That after a few days off you cannot wait to get back to work and you will enjoy the highlights that the work offers. It would be nice if we could look at our work that way. Yet we rarely do that. Fun is not the first word we think about when we talk about work. We wish someone who goes on holiday a lot of fun. Is he going to work, then we wish him every success. Apparently with such a wish we focus on performance and results instead of pleasure.

ANYWAY WORK WITH PLEASURE

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If the amount of work suddenly doubles

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Sometimes the circumstances force you to take on more work than you can actually handle. How do you cram twice as much work in the same time….

 

In my student days it was a frequently used assessment, the card catalog. The applicant receives an enormous amount of information and does not get enough time to go through it. How the applicant deals with it says a lot about his ability to prioritize. But what if your entire working week is a large card catalog. If you have chronically too much work?

You can be busy and you can be busy. In one case you are focused all day, do lots of work and at the end of the day you have a very satisfied feeling about yourself. You fixed that nicely.

Behind the facts

In the second case of being busy you follow the facts. Every mail that comes in feels like an extra amount of work, colleagues who drop by to ask something(s) are unwelcome , and if someone asks how things are going, you can only produce some sort of incomprehensible murmur. Not feeling satisfied at the end of the day, just the question of what you have done with your time all day. What you were so stressed out, you can’t even reproduce anymore.

It is that second form of pressure that leads to burnout. Because if something leads to stress, it is the loss of control, the feeling of being lived.

It’s hard enough to keep control of your own work. Books have been written full of techniques to increase your concentration, set priorities and close yourself off for distraction. But what if the circumstances are just not going well? What if the amount of work suddenly increases, for example because a colleague is sick who is not being replaced? If a big new project comes in and the people are not in favor of it or if a lot of extra work is just put down for you?

No more hours

Whatever the reason may be, many people have to deal with increasing amounts of work and keeping up with that can be difficult. So how do you prevent this by working more and then buffering in the evening and at the weekend, and in this way working yourself into a burnout? A few simple steps can help.

The first step is to stand still and see how you stand. Are you unmotivated, do your colleagues snub and are you actually always tired? Then there is a good chance that you are already well on the way to a burnout. If that is the case, you must change your habits as quickly as possible. For more about recognizing a burnout in time.

Larger whole

Then it is important to zoom out to get the bigger picture back in sight. Accept that you will not get everything done. So don’t start doing things like a headless chicken, but take the time to set priorities. The chance is small that there are things in it that you can skip, but start with the most urgent things.

Then it is good to remember that you are not alone in your company and that there are people you can ask for help. Even though it’s not what you want, and it feels like you’re failing, it’s your boss’s job to make sure you can do your job well. So make use of that. Nobody can do anything about it if you fall over because of the stress because you did not ring the bell in time.

The team

To prevent you from feeling that you are lazy or to moan, it helps to frame the reasons that you do not want to do extra work in the interest of the team. With all the work you get put on your plate, ask yourself: am I the best person to do this, and who on the team can help me with this?

And an important lesson that I am now learning: no is also an answer. So is there a colleague next to your desk with a request for something he could do well himself? Does your boss have a nice plan again that will give you a lot of extra work? Just say no. That not only works best for you, but also for your team. If everyone knows where he stands, you will get further.Facebooktwitterredditpinterestlinkedinmail

7 Reasons Why Laughter Really Is The Best Medicine

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There’s no denying the fact that having a sense of humor is important. It helps heal wounds, mend relationships, and generally brings about positive things to your life. Laughing won’t cost you anything, it’s free and is readily available. Here are the top reasons why you should consider laughing more often:

  1. It lessens the negative effects of stress

When you’re feeling stressed out, hang out with someone you know can make you laugh. Someone who knows which buttons to push to draw out laughter from you. You’ll feel much better after and you’ll feel like a ton of weight has been lifted off your shoulders.

  1. It makes you feel happy

Look at the way children laugh. They laugh with so much abandon that you’ll find yourself laughing along with them. A child’s uninhibited laughter is contagious. It really does make you feel happy.

  1. It makes you think positively

When you laugh you forget your worries for a brief period of time. Your thoughts get diverted from negativity to positivity. Watch your favorite comedy on TV or on YouTube, and you’ll forget whatever it was that was bothering you!

  1. It helps ease the pain

When you’re sick, you feel pain when you move around. You think dark thoughts that aren’t really helping you recover from your illness. With laughter, however, you are able to ease the pain even for just a bit. You’ll probably still be sick, but at least you’ll be more comfortable as your mind is no longer focused solely on your pain.

  1. It makes you more resilient

No matter what life throws at you, if you have a sense of humor, you can get through almost anything. You’ll have negative thoughts after something catastrophic happens to you, but with your humor, you’ll always find a way out of the darkness.

  1. It makes you feel relaxed

Laughter can help you overcome your negative thoughts. Once that’s out of the way, you’ll feel so much better. You’ll feel happier, and you’ll feel more relaxed. When you’re around other people, you’ll be more open to meaningful and fun conversations.

  1. It strengthens relationships

When you share laughter with other people, it makes you feel closer to them. You share a special bond that laughing together has created. As long as you don’t laugh at someone else’s expense, then you’re building strong and positive relationships with people.

 

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WHY YOU HAVEN’T OVERCOME STRESS YET

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The new year started fresh but I know a lot of you are still under stress. Good enough to start my first blog item with giving you the ability how to reduce stress from your mind, body and soul.

Sit back, relax and let me talk to you…

Don’t you forget we live in a world of stress, from childhood to old days at home, in the work place .it keeps us awake at night. Stress ruins our days and tons of other activities.

And so we often ask, how can I get rid of the anxieties of life.

How can I get free from STRESS.

Some people take exercise other takes yoga, other do meditation something, anything, but my understanding is this:

There is no getting away from STRESS, yes you can’t get away from it. The age we all living in is the age of STRESS.

This is a world of STRESS. A time of STRESS.

You breath it, you see it, you hear it and what to do ????

You can learn to manage it and to tolerate it how not to identify it and it’s effects.

Now how do you do that ?? Here it comes…..

Change your approach to the factor STRESS and change your approach to life by remembering this mantra : BE ANCHORED you got it yes BE ANCHORED

What do I really mean :

Envisage a ship or boat anchored at sea, Storms/ hurricanes may come one after another the boat may toss this way and that and furniture inside may go flying. Some people get seasick, but the boat doesn’t go anywhere.

Why ???

Clear…It’s Anchored !!

So you be anchored, find the place in life that you want to be in based on who you really are. Find what your inner-self really wants from life and anchor to that.

Once you keep bringing yourself back to that place by constant remembrance of your identity values and goals then you can learn to manage STRESS.

At the fresh start of this new year I would like to share ten tips how to be calm and reduce STRESS:

  1. MEDITATE

    Just a few minutes a day of meditation can help to ease your stress and anxiety.

  2. BREATHE DEEPLY

    When you are feeling stressed, take time to focus on breathing deeply. Close your eyes, sit up straight and focus on nothing but breathing deeply.

  3. REACH OUT

    Having a solid social support system is a good key to reduce stress.

    Reach out to close friends and your family in time of need.

  4. EXERCISE

    Exercise has been shown to increase “FEEL GOOD” endorphins that can help reduce stress. A long walk can give you time to reflect, while an intense gym workout can let you release negative energy.

  5. LAUGH

    Laughter may not be the “best” medicine but it does actually lower cortisol – also known as the stress hormone.

  6. LISTEN TO MUSIC.

    Research has shown that listening to soothing music can lower blood pressure, heart rate and anxiety. Alternatively, listening to more upbeat music can also help by invigorating you.

  7. BE GRATEFUL

    These two words tells you a lot.

  8. ACCEPT YOU CAN’T CONTROL EVERYTHING

    This one is very simple – some times you just have to step back and realize that you can’t control everything. Some things are out of your hands, so why waste your time stressing about them.

  9. STAY POSITIVE

    It is not easy to stay always positive. But, you can make an active effort to try and to find the positively in your very own life. Do not focus on negative thoughts like “bad things are going to happen with me”.

  10. DO SOMETHING FUN

    Don’t forget to take some time to really enjoy yourself. Find yourself a nice hobby that can tune your mind body and soul. Do activities that you enjoy. Surround yourself around people that you have fun with.

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Entrepreneurs : More clarity as a secret weapon against burnout?

FacebooktwitterredditpinterestlinkedinmailLiberation, also called enthusiasm, enthusiasm or enthusiasm, has become increasingly popular lately. After all, many employees are convinced that advocacy helps to reduce absenteeism and increase work performance. That’s certainly true, but how do you put your enthusiasm for your private life? How can you live and exercise life so that you have a vital and fit feeling?
You are reading this article about this “secret weapon” against burnout!
What is freedom?
Before we get into the depths of diving, we have a definition of freedom. Because what exactly is it?
Many definitions have been found for clergy at work, so therefore, with this introduction, I write about job satisfaction at work. Later on in this article we go into a happy life and how you can keep it vital and healthy.
Concentration is actually a combination of several factors:
• Commitment
• Energy
• “Flow”
Definition of Liberation
Wilmar Schaufeli, Dutch Labor and Organization Psychologist, Clinical Psychologist and Professor of Occupational and Organizational Psychology at Utrecht University, Utrecht, gives the following definition of enthusiasm:

“Liberation is a positive, affective-cognitive state of supreme satisfaction, characterized by vitality, dedication and absorption. This is accompanied by energy bubbles, feeling strong and fit, able to work long and tirelessly with work and have great mental resilience and great perseverance. ”
How does a burnout occur?
Very short through the bend you could say that a burnout occurs if day after day more energy is consumed than you get back.
See it as a kind of savings account , you get constant money but do not occasionally make a deposit. Well, then your money will be on. Or worse, you’ll get red.
That’s how it’s with your energy too.

If you consume more energy month after month, and you get little to nothing for back then your energy level drops every month. After that, it takes a lot of effort to replenish your energy reserve.
If you consume more energy for a long time than you build, you will be in a burnout. Your energy reserve has been burned. You do not have a puff more and no willpower to take business. Simply because you literally do not have the energy anymore. Why freedom helps to keep a burn-out remotely If, on the other hand, you also take activities every month that makes you happy and give you new energy, you’ll keep it for longer. Even better: do so much every month of such activities that, as it were, you make big savings on your energy savings account. You will then build a reserve for times when your skin is less well.
If you do things that you like, what you get excited about, or where your blood will flow faster, you’re likely to get new energy. But how do you find the things you’re getting energy from?And how do you create enthusiasm at work?
Liberation at work
Previous research has shown that about 1 in 5 people are really happy. How can you make sure that you become a fellow employee?
What was previously thought was that the workload was too high when one no longer got the job is now thinking about support and motivation . Sometimes it’s not just work pressure, but just the last two factors that matter. One must be intrinsically motivated and able to work autonomously to be inspired.
Some items to be a fellow employee do not have your own hand. It is nice and conducive if the management clearly communicates clearly. Also praise prizes help the enthusiasm.
Those things are not entirely in your hands, they are external factors.
Yet, to some extent, you can awaken your enthusiasm by addressing your own energy sources. By monitoring your energy level and adjusting your workflow, you can create the perfect match.

Job demands versus energy sources
Job requirements are specific tasks that you must perform , they belong to your job.These can be physical tasks, but also organizational, social or mental tasks. Performing these tasks takes energy. However, that does not have to be a negative thing in itself.
It will only be stressful if your job requirements are not related to your energy.
That is why you speak your own energy sources so that a good balance of work and workload is created. These are sources that give you energy.
Examples of this are:
• High self-esteem
• Optimistic attitude
• Can work effectively
• Stress resistance
• Can work autonomously
• Feedback from colleagues received
• Valuation of colleagues and supervisors
• Support from colleagues
• Opportunities to develop and grow
As you can see, there are both personal and business energy sources. Do not think of yourself that you can not be inspired if you are not fainted by nature. Everyone can become a happy person, if you know the right sources of energy and find the match between what you want and what you can.


The benefits of enthusiasm at work
The paid employee offers not only benefits for himself but also for the employee. This employee is brushing the energy, is well in his skin and is in a hurry. His happy mood makes him easy to do something extra. He is going to work happily and quickly gets into a flow . He undoubtedly issues problems during the day, but then he does not stop trying. He feels healthy and energetic. He is both involved and connected with the organization. Due to its energy and optimism, this inspired employee offers innovative solutions and improved performance. He is more customer-friendly than his poor-humored colleagues and experiences his work as useful. He is not often sick, makes few mistakes and feels balanced.

How do you create enthusiasm as a human?
Work for yourself and think now “Well, what can I do with this?”
As a human, you often have no colleagues around you who can support you. You can not get a manager’s appreciation. What then? What else can you do to work?
One of the benefits of working for yourself is that you can do things in your own way. So you can work autonomously – one of the ingredients for a happy life. In addition, you do not need anything, this enables you to work extremely effectively. After all, you can do whatever you want to do, there is no boss that needs this or yours.
These are two major benefits of working. Furthermore, it is very dependent on your personality. Are you naturally an optimist or a pessimist? How do you deal with setbacks? Where do you get energy from?
Further in this article I treat the ways to lead a flown life, so not only will you be a fellow employee but you will feel a fellow person.
Work addicted or fought?
But before you read about this, I would like to give this to you: liberation is something different than work addiction.
Work addiction leads to burnout. Hard work is not necessarily needed to be inspired.Mettering work is rather a sign of work addiction than freedom.
You undoubtedly know people who seem to stop their soul and bliss in their work. They are at the office and arrive for the rest and they go last. They are constantly busy, but at the same time attend all meetings and always finish their work. This has the effect that the laptop is still busy in the evening and almost non-stop. This employee will even be in charge of his weekend even.
Is it good or bad now?
Without further context, I would say: bad.
This seems more like work addiction than on clarity. Liberation begins with yourself. It’s intrinsic as it’s called. Work addiction, on the other hand, arises from the urge to prove yourself or to reap the appreciation of others.
Liberation is good, provided it is not a work addiction in disguise.
Liberation at home

It’s nice to be a fellow employee, but there’s more to life than just work.
How can you make sure that you become a happy partner or grown up at home? How can you make sure you always have a vital, fit and strong feeling?
‘Priming’
One of the ways to raise energy is through a so-called morning ritual.
Performance coach Tony Robbins uses a 9-minute meditation ritual. He calls it priming . This comes from the English word prime , which means excellent. It means that you give yourself an excellent feeling.
His approach looks like this:
1. Gratitude [3 minutes] : Be thankful for three different things for three minutes. Think about simple things like the sun rays on your face or the smell of fresh coffee.
2. Inner Power [3 minutes] : Tony then focuses on the body for three minutes. You can focus on your emotions, your thoughts or your “soul.” Whatever name you give to it, keep calm with body and mind. Visualize a liquid substance that slowly fills your body with light. This light gives you energy and power. Feel how this energy takes away your stress and ensures success. Visualize how you are going to be successful today.
3. A day of prosperity [3 minutes] : The last three minutes focus on what you are going to do today. Visualize these things as if you already did them. How does that feel? What do you see? What do you hear?
This is a powerful way to start the day and bring you to the correct mental state. Why is it so effective?
Gratitude exceeds the other emotions. You can not be grateful and angry at the same time, says Tony Robbins. In addition, he uses visualization because the brain does not distinguish between what it sees and what you see the laughter for the brain are both real situations. By imagining how you will be successful and stress free today, substances in your brain are created as if the actual situation is already.

Other ways to start your day are:
• Listen to music where you get an energy boost .
• Go to the morning sports . This gives you more energy for the rest of the day.
• Take caffeine-free periods . So your body becomes less resistant to coffee and you naturally have more energy.
Energy is just one of the ingredients needed for a happy life. But the base might go even deeper. Ultimately, it’s about finding your passion and your goal in life.
Find your calling
Want to get more out of your life, but do not you know where to start?
The following questions can help you wake up to dormant dreams and to revitalize it.
• What are your hobbies?
• What is the most significant part of your day?
• What are subjects that you could easily write about a thousand words?
• What are you doing dearest?
• What performance would you make extremely proud?
• What parts of your current job do you like?
• What dreams did you have as a child and what dreams are you still talking about?
• If you could only choose one thing you could remember, what would that be?


Conclusion
Work takes up much of your time. Therefore, it is important that you work with enthusiasm.But what if your job does not fully match your wishes? Then rely on your own energy sources and find the things you like about your work.
And remember that work is only one part of your life. You also have a private situation where freedom is just as important. A passionate and vital life can only lead if you are fought.
Resilience in your private life can create you by solving energy or by introspecting and looking for the things you get excited about.

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Business people How To Lessen Stress

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This article takes a gander at approaches to lessen the sum individuals push. I was regularly known as a bit if an anxiety head, which I need to concede was a decent portrayal of me. I have now learnt about approaches to unwind, which have helped me to carry on a substantially more joyful life.

There have been various issues in my own life which have made me lose certainty, wind up noticeably pushed and even discouraged. These include:

An absence of genuine companions

I have had issues with obligation

A falter

A bare fix

I have had issues controlling my weight

I was frequently suspicious about what other individuals thought of me

These issues have caused me numerous restless evenings. I would be not able get the opportunity to rest as I was not able unwind. This was because of always agonizing and thoroughly considering my issues.

I at that point chose to ponder routes in which I could build my confidence, diminish the sum that I pushed and furthermore about how I could figure out how to unwind. After quite a while, I trusted that I had a few apparatuses and systems which would help me.

Stress administration systems

Quit thinking to such an extent

I am what individuals call a scholar. I fundamentally think excessively. This would not be an issue in the event that I was thinking decidedly obviously I was a negative mastermind.

To help me in this mission to quit considering, I chose to begin tuning in to more music. At whatever point I hit a negative manner of thinking, I would play this music. This could be the point at which I am in the auto, when I am in the house and notwithstanding when I am sleeping.

The music takes my brain off the issues that I was worrying about.

Stop smoking and begin practicing

Many individuals choose to smoke a cigarette when they are focused. I trust that a far more beneficial and less expensive alternative is to work out.

I will do a couple of weights and a couple of press ups which encourages me to let off some steam. It likewise encourages me to battle my outrage and fears.

Figuring out how to unwind

Unwinding was something I discovered hard to do.

I have now begun different types of option treatment, for example, yoga, reflection and reflexology. These are brilliant at helping individuals to unwind and furthermore help to diminish levels of stress.

This is the thing that has helped me to lessen my own anxiety levels and I trust the guidance will be of advantage to other individuals.

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